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"Three Cheers for..."
Gene, you always strike a chord with me. Maybe it's the era?
Interesting to see the "Market Basket" card and logo--we shopped M.B. for years in the late forties and the fifties, maybe beyond. As for the drill bit, your dad kept it segregated and clearly identified because it was matched to a small-sized "Easy-Out", a sort of reverse bit that would dig into the head of a screw and bring it out if all else failed.
Clyde McConnell
Calgary
Thinking about Dad
Thanks so much for sharing about your Dad...triggers so many memories of my own Dad and how special he is to me. Now that he's dealing with Parkinsons, he means even more to me. Your article helps me see how much I'd like to sit down with him soon and talk through his special stash of memories while we can document them together. Thanks.
thanks, gene
i think i've read all your articles posted here over the years, and i've always wanted to tell you how much i appreciate them. (speaking of which, i have to impko stuff i feel i should send you...) anyway, your articles are the main reason i keep subscribed to creativepro -- they are inspiring on so many fronts. please keep up the good work. this article was awesome, by the way -- so affecting... glimpses from a life. i especially like the shot of your dad above the "card trick" stuff. and what in the world was "the lincoln liar's club"??
Thanks Everyone!
I sincerely appreciate all the thoughtful comments. At the time my dad died, like many of us, I was too busy to have it really sink in. This last year, as I go through some of the physical items left behind, I've been re-experience his death under better emotional circumstances. Photographs are one form of remembrance, but I encourage everyone to always keep a few of the oddball things -- a favorite tape measure, a pair of eyeglasses, the coffee mug someone drank from every day. I find these things even more evocative than pictures. Thanks again for letting me know your thoughts. It really means a lot.
Thanks
I like the way you dig up funny/interesting things from the past, but this went way beyond that. This exposes family and personal stuff, the lows and the highs, which took some courage to tell the public. Thanks, Gene.
Thank You for sharing, this one especially.
Gene,
There's not much more than I can say which hasn't been said already in the comments of others. As with others, I have had to go through much of what was left behind by my parents. Luckily among them, there were many great memories and also much of which I was not aware of.
Gene, I've enjoyed all of your previous posts, and now add this one in particular.
All The Best,
Bob
Dad
My first reaction was a bark of rueful laughter at a mere envelope of mementos. Let me explain.
When Mom died last month (at 102), my sister and I were faced with sorting out the detritus of her 60 years in a small house. This stuff included slides and other photos, most of which were taken by Daddy, who died in 1992. I didn't count them, but there must have been 50 file folders stuffed with sheets of slides, file drawers and boxes full as well. Duplicates. Triplicates. Pictures of pictures. Pictures of pictures of pictures.
And printed photos, only a relative few of which are studio shots. Snapshots of my mother's teen years on a Minnesota farm, and Dad's family who lived all over the U.S. Snapshots of both Daddy and Mom in the TB hospital where they met. Snapshots of the CCC camp where Dad lied about his marital status just to get a job in the depression. Snapshots of their lives in a lookout on the Mendocino Forest, where they were joined by Yours Truly.
My dad must have documented every square inch of Willows, Calif. over several decades, and was much in demand for slide shows for Lions, church, historical groups in our little town and beyond.
My folks (who NEVER THREW A THING AWAY) also had bills, documents and memorabilia stuffed in every corner, not necessarily sorted. In some ways I envy your condensed version of my experience. Yet there is something exciting about dig, dig, digging through duplicated photos, chipped dishes, broken jewelry ... to find GOLD! Nothing of monetary value. Just pictures of the only vacation our family ever took (Daddy being a firefighter on call all summer long). An old prom dress. The little cups we ate shrimp cocktail out of at Thanksgiving....
Thanks to you Gene, for sharing your GOLD!
This one's especially good!
Gene, I like virtually all your posts. Always cheers me up to see your finds. But this one reminds me of my own father in many ways. Thank you.
A moving and sentimental article
Gene,
This was a fine article; very moving and sentimental. Thank you.
By the way, cobalt drill bits are meant for extended use with very hard materials (e.g. stainless steel, titanium, etc.). So, your Dad may have had some specialized usage for it (e.g. to drill out stripped screws or bolts... his use of the term "easy-out" reminds me of modern "EZ-Out" and similarly named tool sets used to (you guessed it) remove stripped screws).
As for why it was stashed away, he may have wanted to prevent others from using it to drill softer materials, such as wood or aluminum, which would have dulled it. A prescient and practical move, indeed.
3 cheers for Dad
I have always enjoyed biography, and it really doesn't matter if the subject is world-famous or unknown to all but family and friends. To track the vector of a life and to see the choices made (and not made), the forks in the road so to speak, fascinates me. It seems to give me some small insight into my own biography. A childhood friend of mine died yesterday and maybe that has put me into an especially reflective mood, but I found your column on your dad very moving. Thanks for sharing that with us.
Bernard Carlisle
I want to hear more!
Thank you for sharing! Sounds like your Dad had and hit some rough times there! I have quite the collection myself, funny how the small things say so much. Saved every gift tag on every present I got that had a special message on it, every soccer club membership card, army card, work id cards, stamp booklet my grandad left, two bullet casings a larger one hit by a smaller 22 from 30 yards away. It would be neat to do an illustrated book of things like this that people left I think its really interesting! Thanks again for sharing love your articles.
Thank you Gene!
I'm moved as well Gene. Thank you for taking the time to share with us.
Wonderfully Nostalgic
I’ve been reading articles here for the past year and have never commented- although I have printed several articles for my employees to read.
I felt compelled to comment on this article because it was not only wonderfully personal and nostalgic- but because it hits so close to home. My Father passed in 2006 and we are still discovering small treasures like what you’ve shared with us today. The silly things he kept for sentimental value and the interesting things that we never knew about him.
I discovered my Dad spoke 5 different languages and travelled all over the world while he was in special intelligence for the US Air Force. Of course, all that was top secret while he was alive. My greatest treasures have been the many photos of him, from the time he was 18 through his retirement, taken in many different countries.
I’ll share a special photo of mine. Special because I have this image of him when he was 20 years old and another photo that is pretty much identical to this when he was 60ish. He held himself exactly the same way… with the same sly look on his face.
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What a lovely, sentimental post today. Thank you.
very moving
brave of you to open up to us/complete strangers.
WOW
Thanks Gene for sharing a very moving piece of your life. What such an insight into one of your parents. No matter how good or bad our relationships with our parents is or was, it say's so much about who we are.
Thanks once again for that special open moment at the start of my day.
Jim Webster.
If you're not infront of the camera, you're out of the picture.
Thanks
Wow, Gene. What a remarkable story. It brought tears to my eyes. My dad died in March at age 90. (My mother died about 10 years ago.) I can't say we had a close relationship, but it wasn't strained, either. This reminds me of some of the things we found of his when cleaning out his stuff. He was a boy scout, too, and joined the army as soon as he had a chance. We couldn't find his army discharge papers at first, but eventually found a metal box at the bottom of his sock drawer. How classic is that! He saved some odd things, too, like an early driver's license and random store receipts. Thank you so much for such a lovely article. It probably wasn't easy sharing all of that, but I'm sure it will do (and has already done) you a lot of good.
What a wonderful gift from the past
I love it when you get "gifts from the past." What an absolute treasure! I got a kick out of seeing a lot of the old printed stuff, and loved the hand-drawn map.
Pat
Thanks for sharing this
Thanks for sharing this stuff, Gene.